LolaStepping off the Relationship EscalatorBeing able to accept many loves into your life with polyamory, including multiple romantic loves, has changed the way I view relationships.Apr 1, 2022Apr 1, 2022
LolaYour Emotional Bill of RightsThis list is about defining and respecting the space between yourself and other people — what your rights are versus what theirs are, too.Dec 29, 2021Dec 29, 2021
LolaTrusting My Boyfriend’s WifeThe hardest part about dating married men is being able to trust their wives. For starters, I don’t date or sleep with anyone that is…Oct 12, 20214Oct 12, 20214
LolaOverlapping LovesWhen we started our adventures into non-monogamy, my husband and I had ideas about how other relationships would fit into our world. My…Oct 6, 2021Oct 6, 2021
LolaAre you a Bonsai or a Wild Rose?The deepest question you can ask yourself is “Why?” Inside that question is the seed of all your actions that will grow into your life. Is…Sep 29, 20211Sep 29, 20211
LolaDigital Dating with an Analog BrainWhen we opened our marriage in 2019, I found myself back in the dating pool after a 17-year hiatus. The last time I dated was when I was 20…Sep 10, 2021Sep 10, 2021
LolaOpen Marriage and Family: What About the Children?!Having an open marriage with young children is interesting, to say the least. The thought leaves ladies clutching their pearls and wringing…Sep 3, 2021Sep 3, 2021
LolaSex and Fire: Human NeedsI wrote a post a few weeks back on several platforms and it caught fire in a way I had not anticipated. I honestly didn’t expect the kind…Aug 22, 2021Aug 22, 2021
