My Husband, My Boyfriends, and Me

“If you had known non-monogamy was an option, I don’t think you ever would have become monogamous,” my husband said frankly as we enjoyed a date together.

We have been married for 16 years, together for 19 years, and he may have more insight to my personality than anyone else on earth. For the majority of our relationship I’ve been monogamous…but not the entire time. When we met I had relationships with several people that fell all over the spectrum of platonic, romantic, and sexual. I promise I don’t have multiple personalities, just a very open-hearted approach to…