Sex and Fire: Human Needs

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I wrote a post a few weeks back on several platforms and it caught fire in a way I had not anticipated. I honestly didn’t expect the kind of reaction it stirred from both men and women…but I probably should have. It caught fire not because it was about privilege, but because it was about sex.

You see, I forgot that in the hierarchy of needs, sex is part of the base. (insert pun about “base” needs) Maslow’s theory puts…




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